1. Dan and I can no longer sleep in a full sized bed. Not just sleep comfortably. We can't sleep in a full sized bed. At all. Actually, I did doze a few times, waking up in such pain that I was sure I wouldn't be able to walk the next day. The bed didn't have a good mattress, it was too small, it was against a wall, and Dan seemed determined to push me through that wall. Oh, and the dog was there, so throw him into the mix -- he has to sleep under the covers with his hind end in my face. Just lovely.
2. We need a bed for every member of our family. And we did have that on both our vacations this year. It seemed like overkill, but we had a full and a twin in each of our 2 bedrooms last week. We tried to have a kids' room, with the girls sharing a bed, but I had forgotten that no one really wants to sleep with Chesney. I can't tell you how many times I have walked into her room in the morning to wake her up, only to find her feet on her pillow. Besides acrobatics, she also talks in her sleep. And grinds her teeth. Nope, no one wants to sleep with her. So she got the 2nd bed in the adults room.
3. No more travelling with the dog. This one is sorta sad, but it has to be. I've discovered that pet friendly also means smoker-friendly. And nothing against those who smoke, the smell just makes my family ill. And we knew going in that our cabin was a smoking allowed cabin and would smell. We take the dog because he's very attached to me and hates to leave me, which makes me sad, so we take him. But he'll be staying at Grandpa's from now on, and we'll be staying in smoke-free accomodations.
4. We need two bathrooms. Dan doesn't think this is a deal-breaker, but since he's usually the one in the bathroom when we need the second one, I'm saying this one is *my* deal-breaker. 2 adults, 2 almost teenagers, a family of people with sensitive stomachs and all kinds of new foods when we're on vacation... we need 2 bathrooms.
5. Dan says, "We need two TVs." I'm of the opinion that we don't need any TVs when we're on vacation, but the kids like to watch their cartoons in the morning. Dan likes to watch ESPN. Just ESPN... doesn't matter what's on. At least the kids are discriminating. They won't watch Avatar or baby shows like Dora. They flip to find the best show. Dan just needs ESPN. And if the kids are watching their shows, he can't watch ESPN.
6. Free internet is nice. I figure if Dan is watching ESPN, and the kids are playing or watching their shows (and they did play more than they watched TV), there's no harm in a quick check of the email. I had to walk down this big hill to check my email last week. That was no problem. It was the walking back up the hill carrying the laptop that did me in.
So those are the things I realized about my family and our needs this week. Makes thinking about going on a 2 week vacation next year a little more complicated. I think we're going to just rent a vacation home somewhere. The days of cramming into one hotel room, or taking the cheapest option are over. I need comfort and space or it's just not worth it.
And now some of the few pictures I did take: